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  • Seeing Loving Your Job as Pathetic

    It’s common for people to have cold and distanced attitude towards their job. Not engaging themselves fully & only doing the least of what’s required to satisfy the employer, while keeping in mind that the employer is not their friend.

    There’s usually truth to that – yes, the employer isn’t your friend, I’m not denying that. But why should that stop you from you loving your job? Infusing your work with love and engagement is simply a better way to live – for YOU! The employer does benefit from this higher engagement of course, but the primary beneficiary is YOU. A life loved through and through is a life well lived.

    People can often try to shame you when you embrace your job too much – especially if it’s a job that “doesn’t deserve it”. They can deem it as pathetic to give yourself away to work for an entity that isn’t really your ally. After a while, you could start believing that and put a barrier against your love while at work, not allowing yourself to be engaged because it’s “cucking” and pitiful. But you CAN disregard all that and LOVE nevertheless, because YOU simply want to live that way.

    It’s never pathetic to do what you’re doing with love. If anything’s pathetic, it’s cynicism and withholding your love. Don’t be a cynic.

    Note: I’m not advocating for excusing poor behaviour of your employer. I’m just saying it’s good to infuse love in the work that’s to do in the moment. I acknowledge that working at some jobs could genuinely be abusive – if so, you should move towards quitting them.

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  • Do Things with Love

    Whatever you’re doing, do it with love. Go into it deeply. Be engaged.

    No matter if it’s working at your job, doing the dishes, having a conversation with your loved one, exercising, just laying on your bed doing nothing. What if you embraced this – what’s currently being done, and went into it fully?

    Do it for yourself. Do it for love. Infuse spirit into your daily life.

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  • Be Prudent With Big Energetic Changes

    Even if an inspiring energy strongly arose in your mind to make a big change in your life, this does NOT mean that you must IMMEDIATELY turn your life around and act on it. Especially if the energy is very recent, not something you’ve been thinking about for a long time.

    Be prudent and patient. Give yourself time to stabilize. If it’s truly meant for you, it will come back to you again anyway. You don’t need to immediately act on it in a rushed way, in the fear of losing it or changing your mind.

    Yes, you might change your mind. That’s entirely possible. But it’s usually not worth it to act on sudden, unpremeditated bursts of energy that have long-term consequences. It’s usually best to make important energetic choices from a place of being more ready for it. I’m not saying you have to feel FULLY ready – it’s normal to have doubts, so most often you will act without full readiness. I’m just saying: don’t act on unpremeditated impulse.

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  • Regrets Are Meant to be Processed and Let Go Of

    If you have regrets, don’t avoid them. Process them, cry them out if needed, and soon enough you’ll be free from the feeling.

    It can be difficult to admit regret. You might feel like admitting it means: confirming forever that you’re some sort of failure in life. But no, quite the opposite – once fully admitted, this feeling simply goes. You stop being bounded by it, and the thoughts that “you failed in life” lose their strength. It stops being true for you; you become free of this curse. You can finally move forward.

    Here’s a tip: see the feeling of regret (and specific memories connected to it) as impersonal. It doesn’t relate to you. It’s simply a feeling/energy that you are meant to process and move on from. But you are never endangered by it. You don’t need to protect your established life story from it – the story is bullshit anyway.

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  • Love Is the Reason for Existence

    The reason for all of existence is LOVE.

    Absolute Love simply is the case. It Exists. And all of Reality is made out of It – that is It’s immaterial substance.

    Reality is here because it’s LOVED. It IS God/Love. One simply equals the other.

    In order for something to exist, it MUST be Loved, and there is nothing that exists that isn’t Love. This includes all the “bad” things that you can think of. The key to understanding this is: LOVE is UNCONDITIONAL. It’s not human love we’re talking about, it’s GOD. God does not discriminate anything, because God is everything.

    Look in front of you. That is LOVE.

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  • Your Nature Is Love

    Absolute Love is what You are. LITERALLY.

    God = Love simply IS the case. There is no denying it when you recognize it. It’s TRUTH. It’s ABSOLUTE.

    There is no proof or reason for it. It must be seen to be the case, absolutely, in your direct experience.

    It took me a while to realize it. So if you don’t see this and it’s abstract to you, it’s fine. But just know that you can recognize it for yourself with enough consciousness work. I recommend working with the question “What am I?” + utilizing psychedelics as a tool (strategically & responsibly). That’s what got me there.

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  • You Are Taken Care of by God Always

    Even when You recognize that You are God, there is ALWAYS more of You than You’re aware of. You’re never really “at the top” of consciousness.

    And that’s good. Take comfort in this fact. You are always taken care of by Yourself.

    God Loves you. God = Love.

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  • Have Your Eyes on God

    EYES ON ME.

    When you put your eyes on God, life enters a magical flow where “impossible” things can happen in Reality.

    As long as you keep your eyes on Him, the magical flow continues. But if you take your eyes off and start questioning the sense of what’s happening, you fall from grace.

    The unfolding of Reality does NOT have to make sense. God/Infinity is not limited by sense. So, can you allow your life to stop making sense? Can you focus on God and not question what’s happening out there?

    “Walk by faith, not by sight.”

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  • Nothing Matters but Love

    In the end, nothing else matters in life but love. Give up the life you’re living if it isn’t about love, and switch to one where you do love intensely. Do what you LOVE. Whatever that means for you, go with it.

    Seriously, because what ELSE is there to do?

    Start living to your fullest. There is no time to waste.

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  • You Can’t Ever Fail in Life

    You only ever deal with the energetic hand you are dealt. “You” can never fail, because you always only are what you are. Nothing you think or do is your fault – it’s just what is (or was) the case energetically. So don’t blame yourself and never see yourself as a failure in life. 

    Still, have the mindset of always trying to do your best. Even though it’s not really “you” doing it – if you still believe in this principle, energy will actually arise to move you towards doing your best. In essence, don’t use “being only what you are” as an excuse to be less than you can be. Give it your all.

    And if you genuinely can’t do your best… It’s not your fault. But you should probably strive towards doing it. Pray for it, want it with all your heart. And if you don’t want it… It’s not your fault.

    (Btw, in the same way, nothing good you ever do is thanks to you. Instead of priding yourself in doing things, be grateful that energy arose to make them happen. It wasn’t really your doing.)

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  • Psychedelics Are an Introvert’s Dream Come True

    In my view, there is no better way to profoundly come back to your depth than by going on an intentional, focused psychedelic trip. If you’re doing it right, you deeply reconnect with your existential nature and bask in the utter vibrance and recognition of yourself. Which is, I think, what the introvert longs for.

    Obviously you can’t do it too much. You shouldn’t force it or do it out of desperation. You must have right intention – a genuine, loving sense that you want to come back to yourself. And of course you must be very careful and respect the protocol, so that things don’t go sideways. Psychedelics are no joke, but they are a very useful tool that works if you want to profoundly see yourself again.

    It’s okay to like psychedelics. And it’s okay to admit that to yourself. Just don’t go bragging about it to people that aren’t going to get it. You can have a sweet little secret with yourself, and possibly some individual folks that will understand.

    There are many other ways to take a step back to your depth. 99% of the time you will be using those other techniques – like going on a walk in nature, reading a book in silence, and so on. It’s just that this one is extremely potent – but its use should be limited and treated with caution. Once a month MAXIMUM should suffice for you.

    Again, keep in mind you should be only doing it from genuine light intention, not out of desperation/need. Don’t treat it as a crutch – see it as a possibility to come back to your Godhood once more, if you truly wish so. Do it from a position of being content with what’s HERE NOW, not trying to escape.

    This last point is crucial – don’t run away from your daily life, embrace it. Inspect your intentions carefully, so that you don’t treat psychedelics as an escape and become addicted.

  • As an Introvert, Go Back to Your Depth Regularly

    If you’re an introvert, make sure you dedicate enough time to being in your depth. Come back to yourself regularly – otherwise you will feel unbalanced and hollow.

    This is serious. Respect your introverted nature. Even if the world (or: you!) is inflicting pressure on you to be more social and go out more or something, and you don’t feel like it, make sure that you stand up for yourself and carve out time for regeneration. Treat yourself with high regard. This is your genuine need and it’s important.

    Going back to your depth might mean different things: reading a book in silence, going on a walk in the wood, laying on your bed listening to music, having a deep conversation with your friend, going on a silent and focused psychedelic trip. Whatever floats your boat. Be aware of what regenerates you and allocate time for that intentionally.

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  • Kindness Is the Real Punk Rock

    High energy, positivity, hope, lightness, kindness, compassion is cool.

    Inspire yourself to be that.

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  • Amuse Yourself In Life

    Find ways to amuse yourself in everyday life. Find out and come back to things/perspectives that you genuinely find funny. The more “basic” they are, in that you see them very often, the better!

    Here are some examples: I find birds dorky and I can’t help but laugh at them. The way they look physically and how they walk with their heads bopping is so funny to me, haha. Another thing could be: just looking at humans and seeing them as these weird creatures, or monkeys. Imagine you enter the perspective of an alien who doesn’t know anything about humanity. The daily behaviour of humans is actually very funny – like, what the fuck is everyone doing?! Really try to enter this perspective, I recommend it. And lastly: people getting worked up over petty things, like getting angry over traffic. I can’t contain my laughter when I see it.

    Know what you find funny and have these amusing ways of viewing the world at your disposal. Also, just be aware of what type of humour you have, and then surround yourself with memes/objects aligned with that humour. You can set your funniest memes as your phone wallpaper, or even print them out and stick them to your wall. Or buy yourself a T-shirt with a slogan that genuinely makes you laugh. Seriously, amuse yourself!

    It’s important to have laughter in your life. You can make a deliberate effort to bring it in and lighten yourself up in the long-term.

    P.S. How to find out what you find funny? Primarily by being observant. The more aware you are of your surroundings constantly, the more little things you’ll notice, some of which are bound to spark laughter in you when you then think about them.

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  • Lift People Up (by Being Grounded in Yourself)

    Be someone who lifts up people around you. It means 1) emanating with positive energy and 2) having the strength to be grounded in it around others. Giving others the opportunity to rise up to your energy, instead of falling down yourself.

    The primary beneficiary of you being positive and solidly grounded in your energy is of course: You. So that’s reason enough to do it. But you’re also serving others when doing so – and for me that’s quite inspiring.

    Whether people are actually lifted up or not depends mainly on them, of course. Some people will unconsciously start exerting pressure over you and try to bring you down when you’re in a high positive state around them. They might even become hostile – most will try to cover it up and be passive aggressive, the more unhinged ones will display it openly. It’s best to approach situations like this tactfully and either try to soften these people up skillfully, or leave them, change your environment. Sometimes it’s really best to just change your surroundings and avoid interacting with people who have their demons on full display.

    Other people will be more receptive and it’s these folks that it’s worth to be around. Strive to be around people who are on a similar wavelength to you. You’ll be lifting them up more easily – and since they’re similar, they’ll probably be lifting you up as well.

    It’s a joy to feel that you have a positive influence on your world. Just keep in mind that you’ll probably only influence the part of the world that is already open to it.

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